So last week I spoke about 3 things that really bothered me – namely rudeness. I did however say that luckily I see far more good in people than the situations I recently found myself in and so I wanted to share 5 things that really float my boat – a stark contrast to my previous blog.
I just love to see kindness in people – as I am sure we all do.
I am a firm believer that if you demonstrate good qualities such as kindness, then it becomes infectious and people are more inclined to ‘pass it on’. Now this doesn’t have to be grand gestures, a simple smile to a stranger, helping to pick up items knocked from a shelf accidentally in a shop, letting a car out of a junction or a little compliment to someone. The list is endless. It costs absolutely nothing to show kindness yet the value and worth is priceless. The difference you can make to someone’s day, and in turn your own is invaluable.
Recently Leah and I decided to put up our Christmas tree. We were excited as we had purchased a new tree (our old one looed rather lack lustre and sparse and was only good for the recycle centre). We had a lovely day, decorating the tree and putting up our new Christmas bunting and baubles.
Then came the time to put up our stockings. Leah, Rupert and I all have a red and grey tartan personalised stocking which hangs from our shelf in the living room. But ,,,, the stockings were no where to be seen. Yes, you guessed it, they were in the old Christmas tree box – now at the recycling centre or stocking heaven. Gutted. These stockings were new last year and I felt – and still feel terrible.
Leah was so kind – telling me it wasn’t my fault (it was!) and that it didn’t matter even though I am sure she is as upset about this as I am. That simple act of kindness made all the difference to me. I know the event wasn’t that significant but her response was. Everyone should reflect at the end of the day and name 3 kind things they did that day!
I absolutely love how excited most people I know or see on social media are about Christmas. Now some people have had issues with folk putting up their Christmas trees early but us festive friends place that negativity on the tree, throw a little glitter and tinsel on it and light it up with fairy lights…voilla! Negativity be gone!
Christmas is over with so quickly so why not start it as early as you can? Being around a lot of children, I cannot imagine ever losing that magic and excitement that this time of year brings. I don’t know if it’s the cosy nights, the pretty colours and lights, the magic of Santa Clause or the mutual love of Christmas music but people just seem to get along more at this time of year. Perhaps I just imagine that. Perhaps the gingerbread, gifts under the tree and twinkly lights have gone to my head and I walk around in my own North Pole wonderland but that’s how it feels to me.
I just love food. So so so so much. Too much. Food really floats my boat. Leah and I really enjoy eating and always make sure we eat together. We love to eat out, we love a bits and pieces dinner, a roast or a snack on the sofa. We just love food. As I type a chocolate orange beckons … but I shall not be distrac….oooh chocolate…..mmm.
I am such a home bird family girl. Leah, my parents, sisters, nephews and niece (the most wonderful people age 10 and under I know), brothers-in law, mother-in law and sister-in law are the world to me. I love my wider family too obviously but these are the people I see and speak to as often as every other day (daily for Leah obviously). My family, as cheesy as it sounds, really are my best friends. I laugh the hardest and longest when I am with them. We are silly, inventive, creative and compassionate. We all share the love of family and enjoy every second of each others company. Nothing is too much trouble for anyone and we all feel very blessed. I am sure lots of people feel the same and I love that thought. They say you can’t pick your family …. well this may be true but If I could choose I would pick my family time and time again.
Rupert, our boy, our 4 year old chocolate Labrador is wonderful. We love dogs in general and Rupert sees his brother from his litter each week as he lives with one of my sisters, and also his cousin (my parents border collie) Meg.
Rupert is extremely loving, cheeky, selective with his hearing and so puppy like with his bounciness. We adore him.
The other day Rupert started limping. This lasted around a minute and was probably from sleeping funny but within that minute I had planned what I was saying to the vet whilst they would be on loud speaker as I would be in the car rushing to the out of hours vet. Dramatic yes. Unusual for me? No. I am quite reasonable and realistic in most aspects of my life but not with Rupert. He is precious and any pain literally makes me cry. I had tear filled eyes whilst Leah was trying to reassure me and she was offering treats to Rupert to make him walk back and forth in the kitchen to see what the problem was. It’s funny how their pain (or pretend limp as it seems) can cut a dog owner like a knife.
Rupert is the equivalent of our child as we do not have our own children so he is always at the forefront of our plans. We even planned our wedding and honeymoon around him so that he could be with us. We sound obsessed – we really are not, but he’s our baby and we don’t have our fur babies for that many years – it’s only right we should fit a lifetime of happiness into that time together.
So…those are the 5 things that did float my boat over the last week. What has made you happy recently?